10 Things I Wish to Tell My Future Daughter

Dear love,

1. It’s okay if you can’t be strong even after trying. You’re allowed to cry and rest.
2. You can say no to things you don’t feel comfortable with. It doesn’t make you a narcissist to put yourself first.
3. It’s okay to feel insecure. But please never seek validation from anybody. You’re simply precious in your own way.
4. Your mental and physical health should always be the main priority.
5. It’s okay if you prefer blue over pink or an artist over a doctor. You are allowed to choose what makes you happy.
6. It’s okay to ask for help. Being vulnerable doesn’t make you weak. But it shows that you’re willing to fix your problem.
7. Grades and scores matter. But what matters most is your health. Having a bad grade doesn’t mean you would be a loser in life.
8. You will never be my burden. Because we chose to have you and despite the hardship of raising a child, you’ll forever be a blessing.
9. I may not be rich in wealth, but for you, I would do whatever it takes to be rich in love and affection. You would never have to look for it from anybody.
10. I’d be the happiest if you grow up well. But you are not responsible for my happiness. Please don’t try to please me until you forgot about your well-being.

I may not know what the future holds, nor if I could give you a complete loving family;
I may not know if I could provide you a cozy home, or the materials you would need in life;
I may not know whatever might happen later in life. But there is one thing I know for sure.
I would surely give you the love you deserved.